"Most of us are going to be both. Being single versus being married—it’s not like having blue eyes versus brown ones. You’re still the same person. The more we can get to a place where we acknowledge we’re these wonderful and strange individuals, and it’s a matter of finding that other wonderful and strange individual who likes your wonderful strangeness, the better."
"Stop talking about love. Every asshole in the world says he loves somebody. It means nothing. It still doesn’t mean anything. What you feel only matters to you. It’s what you do to the people you say you love, that’s what matters. It’s the only thing that counts."